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We need your help – The “Cane-o-matic” project

Ok so this is a slightly different idea…bear with me here 😉

Whilst you all know me as Domme, some of you may also know I enjoy pain too – albeit more as a “non-submissive masochist”. I don’t really get off on the subby bit but i DO like being tied up and flogged/caned/whipped.

I’ve enjoyed a number of fluxcam sessions along those lines with this particular site member and I’m sure a few of you have been there for them, and they were enjoyed by one and all (as far as I could tell).


Normally in these sessions I work under instruction.. so he tells me what to cane/spank etc and I have to do it myself…which is ok but a little “subby” for my liking and (I think) could work better…

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The Best Vibrator ever? The Doxy Diecast

I’ve been meaning to write a review of this for ages now, but I also wanted to do so once I’d seen it in service for a decent amount of time.

It’s a pretty well documented fact that I’m heavy on my kit…whether it’s cars, cameras, computers or my vibrators they ALL have a hard life. My cameras spend hours/days in hot & sweaty environments and end up covered in lube during shoots, my cars get driven relentlessly hard, my computers spend much of their lives working flat out too…and that’s no different for my vibrators.

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Digital Economy Bill – we will be blocking UK users.

This only affects visitors from the UK – everyone else can ignore this and please enjoy the rest of your day, or maybe read it and and have a laugh at the situation in the UK.

Dear UK visitors – thanks to the infinite wisdom of your government and the new “Digital economy bill” adult sites will now be required to have “age verification procedures” to make sure that everyone visiting the site is over the age of 18 (or risk being “banned”).

Initially that might not seem like a terrible idea because, of course, kids shouldn’t be watching porn, but unfortunately the idea of a big unnecessary (and unregulated) register of who watches what sort of porn doesn’t really sound too great from a privacy point of view.

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Made it through surgery ok…

just a quick post to let you know I made it through ok and assuming no dramas I the next few days I think we’re good. tbh service was a lot better in thailand  but I survived 🙂

I plan to sleep till about the 15th and the. gently start easing back into work…got a lot of video to edit (at last!)




So, more surgery…..

As some of you know, as well as a bunch of other changes going on in my life,  I’ve been rather ill recently with gallstones. This has been *very* painful and started towards the end of July and has been ongoing ever since. Some days are better than others but most of the last few weeks has been spent in constant pain, (actually not far off Thailand levels at times) and heavily dosed-up on All The Meds.

I’ve tried to be in fluxcam chat as much as possible but obviously when in pain sexytime on cam hasn’t really been an option. I’ve tried to let my premium members know by email and in chat and ofc I’ve been tweeting about it the whole way but in case somehow you weren’t aware, that’s what’s been going on and why.

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